Once upon a time…

Apr 17, 2019

Your life changed in a minute…seconds… Yes, I know what you feeling I experienced the same.  Let me share some horror stories. 

Retrenchment…that shocking moment when somebody tells you…” we cannot employ you any longer’…if you have never experience that then I am sure you will not understand that a million thoughts can rush through your body through your mind…you don’t know if you must scream, run, cry or fight…your mouth is dry…how fast can your brain work…

How will you be able to support yourself, your family, losing your car, your house your furniture your friends your savings your dream life…all in a few seconds. 

Betray by the love of your life…degrees of pain and humiliation.  The lies and the shame.  The wasted time and love.  The dream scattered in a million pieces. The hopeless clinging to save what you once thought was the only thing that can keep you alive…the endless empty nights.  The phone that is echoing the silence in your head and in your heart.  The long road to recovery…anger, compromise, pleading…acceptance…

Ohhh and that horrible rebound relationship…ahouch that is hurting – you did not even really liked the person…

Losing somebody who pass away…no words simply silence…empty all by yourself. 

The betray of your best friend or the betray of friends, gossip of people you trust.  The failure of an event or the humiliation of a vote that did not go your way. 

The realization that you sacrifice your entire life for something and you did not get it…

Being overlooked for a promotion being a woman, a man, being white or colored, being single or married, too old, too young, too beautiful to experience to outgoing…the list is endless…you are not what we looking for. 

In each genre of our professional life, you try out for something and there can only be one winner…

You look in the mirror and you seeing traces of age…

Or the horrifying prognoses from a doctor…

Picking up weight, feeling old, jaded and restless. 

Homeless, childless, empty nest syndrome, 

Bankrupt or share price dropped… 

Assault, raped, threaten…fear and hopeless… 

I can count on my one hand how many times I have spent with my family on Christmas and New Year, birthdays and going to weddings or celebrations…

I embrace my privacy and my silent times however you see people wonder the streets feeling sad alone, desperate and crying…you see people wishing and dreaming to fall pregnant and to get married and get out of a marriage. 

You see fat people trying to lose weight and to thin people trying to get healthy. 

You see athletes and actors, artist and designers walking away in shame. 

You see football coaches and World Leaders being humiliated and bruised by egos and “life” 

You see and read of Natural disasters and you learn about death and accidents. 

You hear other people die of the cold and others complaining about the heat.  

Just say thank you, thank you, thank you…

Wait !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you out of your mind ???? Why will anybody say thank you, finding gratefulness in such pain and heartbrokenness… 

My pain maybe extreme for me and you may think to grow up…your pain may make other people roll their eyes…

Our pain is our pain… 

I have something for you …you will start seeing miraculous changes in your life.  

Would you like to find out more?  Find a way to get to the other side?  Feeling alive again? Finding what you have been looking for? 

Keep watching this space and you will get some more info 

  • Bibi Farnham 
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About Bibi

Bibi has become a leading voice in motivation. She is a passionate, yet captivating presenter who inspires her audiences all over the world; whether she speaks to individuals, to companies or even to small focus groups. She is now crossing the Ocean just like you. 

She is the author of the most comprehensive book ever written on plus size modeling.

How to be a plus size model.  Also, Take off your Mask based on her experience in Thailand where she was providing counselling to Human traffic victims and missionaries in the field 

Her purpose is to inspire, to enhance and to empower people to constantly strive towards improving the quality of their lives and the lives of others with whom they come into contact.

Bibi is a passionate believer in the importance of achieving goals. She believes that Success is a mindset - we all have a choice to achieve anything we want in life’.

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